By the time I have pecked out a response something has already appeared. I am doomed to making non-sequiturs!
Dear friends, it is so good to hear someone say these things. I too, love that Jesus gave himself as much as his father gave him up: "The Father loves me because I lay down my life in order to take it up again. No one takes it from me; I lay it down of my own free will, and as it is in my power to lay it down, so it is in my power to take it up again; and this is the command I have been given by my Father." John 10:17,18
I would call you sisters now. But I believe that I am three hairs short of a Baboon and don't know if you would claim the relation.
You know, I think that it is true that literalism corrupts the meaning too. The word in Hebrew for Burnt offering means ascent , smoke , go up. Holocaust. It is poetry, it is spiritual. It is not used interchangably with zebach/sacrifice. There existed no word equivalent to what Jehovah was asking until its was defined in the perfect (yet ignorant) obedience of Abraham.
By the time Jephthah rolled around "burnt offering" had been well defined by Abraham and Isaac's example.
The word "love " was likewise re-defined by Jesus:" Love one another; just as I have loved you, you also must love one another. By this love you have for one another, everyone will know that you are my disciples."
It is way past my bedtime, but this is the best Sunday I've had in well over a year.